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The court will process your application and give them to your ex-partner. This is called serving the documents.
Your ex-partner then has a set time to decide if they want to ask the Family Court not to make the Separation Order (this is called defending the application). This is usually:
21 days after the documents are served in New Zealand
30 days if they are served in Australia
50 days for anywhere else in the world.
If your ex-partner asks the court not to make the Separation Order
If your ex-partner asks the court not to make the Separation Order, then there will be a defended hearing in front of a Family Court judge. The judge will hear from both of you and decide if they should make the Separation Order.
If the Separation Order is made, it is valid from the day of the hearing. The court will send copies to both of you.
If your ex-partner doesn’t do anything in the set time
If your ex-partner doesn’t do anything in the set time, a judge will decide if they should make the Separation Order.
If the Separation Order is made, the court will send copies to both of you.